Elizabeth was amazing. A wonderful singer with a beautiful voice, she knew exactly where to stand and what to do, spoke with authority and clarity, and delivered the entire service without skipping a beat. I was in awe. The shot above, however, is my favorite one from the day. Elizabeth is still a girl! Just after I took this picture during rehearsal, the rabbi reminded Elizabeth: “No dancing.” I thought to myself, Aw, let her dance! She’s beautiful!
The rabbi was warm and friendly, allowing me to take pictures during the service as long as I set up out of the way, didn’t use a flash, and didn’t move around. (This one is during rehearsal.)
LifeSavers do work when you’re nervous, you know. (But I’m speaking only for my own nervousness in hoping I would get a few good shots; it didn’t seem to me that Elizabeth was nervous at all!)
Elizabeth’s cousin is very photogenic!
Once I set up for the service, I realized I had a pretty good angle to capture the grandparents’ reactions.
I told Elizabeth early on that I was a photojournalist. “Don’t turn and smile at me unless I ask you to,” I said. But I did take a few “mug for the camera” shots.
Elizabeth was stunning in every sense of the word, making my first mitzvah a truly memorable event. In fact, I’d never even been to a Jewish service before that day. I was very impressed with the whole thing, mostly because Elizabeth was the most comfortable, assured, self-confident young woman I’ve ever met. And she sang in Hebrew! Wow!
Ed Goldberg and the Odessa Klezmer Band played at the party. They were great! I put a snippet of their music in the slide show.
Below, random shots from the party…


I could be wrong, but I think they almost dropped Elizabeth’s mom.

Elizabeth’s dog tags read, “You are tagged as a person of character.” Her speech was based on the story of how she came about owning such a treasure. The woman can WRITE too!
Elizabeth’s dad wore this shirt the day she was born. So sweet.
Below, Elizabeth says goodbye.
Click here to see the slide show.
(The part where Elizabeth says goodbye makes me weep. She’s a good actress!)

As an event photojournalist, I’m supposed to be invisible. One of the lessons I learned from this event is to be careful where I leave my camera bag. So, a free 8×10 for the first person to comment, having found it in one of the slide show pictures. Just a little “Where’s Waldo” game for you! Have fun!
And thanks, Elizabeth, for letting me be a part of your special day!
No related posts were found, so here's a consolation prize: Twittering at the Metuchen Pool with Eileen.
Great job on the Bat Mitzvah++ Very few Rabbis allow photography during the ceremony, you had a unique experience!
Julie, what is your x-processing method… it’s HOT!
~B
Hey Bobs!
I guess I just don’t have as many fans as YOU do. And I’ll never be as famous as you — it’s not possible! You have a lock on that famous bobbismile! You’re irrestible! Love you, hon!
P.S. X-processing on that creative shot. I love the colors too!
HELLOOOOO JULIE!
ALL of these are awesome, but I’m especially drawn to your “creative shot.” What you did with the color is SO neat!
~Bobbi
PS. Where all of you blog commenters out there… I KNOW I’m not the only one who visits Julie’s blog