
Saturday, October 7th, was a big day for me. Not only was that the day I photographed my first wedding, it was also the first public appearance of the Tree Grower’s Diary, which was scheduled long before the wedding opportunity came my way. Thanks to Mike, Bradley, Kathryn, Elaine and Gregory for helping me pull all this off.
Mike, especially, because he not only manned the Tree Diary most of the day, he also dropped by the wedding for a while and got some great shots for me. The bride, Maryellen, is the captain of the Edison First Aid Squad; she arrived to the wedding in an ambulance. How totally cool.
So, here’s the thing. Who knew that my first wedding would be SO emotional? The bride’s mother was a nurse for a long time, much beloved by the community (just like my own mom). Nine years ago, Maryellen’s mom had a stroke, and has been bound to a wheelchair ever since.

When the mayor asked, “Who gives away this woman,”
she stood, and alongside her husband, said, “We do.”

I don’t imagine there was a dry eye in the congregation. It was all I could do to hold my camera. Plus, Maryellen and Trey have an amazing story of hardship and fate that brought them together through the internet. I won’t go into the details here, but suffice to say, the song I chose for their slide show is perfect for this couple. So perfect, in fact, that when I asked Maryellen a week or so before the ceremony if the song would be O.K., she responded by saying, “That’s our wedding song.”
See the slide show here.
On Sunday, I was rushing around all day trying to organize wedding pictures from three cameras, and, that was the day of Gregory’s birthday party.
He had a great time, and I took pictures so he could send each child a personalized thank you card. Since the rule was that he couldn’t open another present until he wrote the thank you card for the one he just opened, we spent the better part of the night processing pictures and making and writing cards.
On Monday, the thank you cards went in the mail, and I got a major cold. No wonder, considering how hard I’ve been pushing myself.
But as I was putting together Maryellen and Trey’s slide show, I kept thinking about Maryellen’s mom, and the triumphant moment when she stood. Maybe it’s the cold affecting my head, but every time I watch the show, I cry like a baby. I feel blessed to have such a full life, and to have been a part of Maryellen and Trey’s wedding.
A special thanks to my friend, Brad, for telling Maryellen and Trey about my photography, and I thank them for having faith in me. It was truly a pleasure to document their special day, a day I will never forget.
Maryellen and Trey